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	<title>Comments on: Ed Chooses Carol</title>
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		<title>By: Ed Chooses Frankie &#124; NSLog();</title>
		<link>http://nslog.com/2003/04/12/ed_chooses_carol#comment-1965</link>
		<dc:creator>Ed Chooses Frankie &#124; NSLog();</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2003 19:47:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In an article I titled Ed Chooses Carol, the title of which gives away the Ed season finale, Alexei took objection to my practice:...
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In an article I titled Ed Chooses Carol, the title of which gives away the Ed season finale, Alexei took objection to my practice:...</p>
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		<title>By: Alexei Kosut</title>
		<link>http://nslog.com/2003/04/12/ed_chooses_carol#comment-1964</link>
		<dc:creator>Alexei Kosut</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Apr 2003 00:32:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know, some of us haven&#039;t seen the &lt;i&gt;Ed&lt;/i&gt; season finale yet, and spoiling it for us &lt;em&gt;in the title&lt;/em&gt; of your entry wasn&#039;t very nice.  I was looking forward to finding a nice quiet hour sometime next weekend in which I could enjoy yesterday&#039;s episode.  Thanks for ruining it.



I know you don&#039;t know me, and you have no particular reason to care, but I&#039;m annoyed enough right now that I&#039;m going to stop reading your weblog, maybe for good.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know, some of us haven't seen the <i>Ed</i> season finale yet, and spoiling it for us <em>in the title</em> of your entry wasn't very nice.  I was looking forward to finding a nice quiet hour sometime next weekend in which I could enjoy yesterday's episode.  Thanks for ruining it.</p>
<p>I know you don't know me, and you have no particular reason to care, but I'm annoyed enough right now that I'm going to stop reading your weblog, maybe for good.</p>
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		<title>By: Erik J. Barzeski</title>
		<link>http://nslog.com/2003/04/12/ed_chooses_carol#comment-1963</link>
		<dc:creator>Erik J. Barzeski</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2003 14:18:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Etan, I don&#039;t use anyone&#039;s last names and I don&#039;t share anything they wouldn&#039;t share with anyone. None of you even know where Lisa lives, other than &quot;1400 miles away from me.&quot; Crystal, same thing. And so on. In short, I don&#039;t think I&#039;ve given anything away.



Just to be safe, I email anyone if they&#039;re ever written about and make sure it&#039;s okay with them. Or I read what I&#039;ve written before I post it (as I did with Crystal here - who frankly got a kick out of the fact that I&#039;ve referred to her as &quot;naked weekend Crystal&quot; every time I&#039;ve written about her).



And re: Lisa, I&#039;ve given her all the hints and flat-out &quot;you should leave this guy, he&#039;s not right for you, and he doesn&#039;t make time for you or make you happy&quot; that I can. If she&#039;s going to marry him, she&#039;s going to marry him.



Steven, what other girl? There&#039;s one I&#039;ve been spending a loooot of time with lately, but things haven&#039;t moved beyond a very close friendship. I&#039;d say &quot;yet&quot; but that&#039;d imply that I think they might some day, and I don&#039;t know where things are going.



Howsat? :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Etan, I don't use anyone's last names and I don't share anything they wouldn't share with anyone. None of you even know where Lisa lives, other than "1400 miles away from me." Crystal, same thing. And so on. In short, I don't think I've given anything away.</p>
<p>Just to be safe, I email anyone if they're ever written about and make sure it's okay with them. Or I read what I've written before I post it (as I did with Crystal here - who frankly got a kick out of the fact that I've referred to her as "naked weekend Crystal" every time I've written about her).</p>
<p>And re: Lisa, I've given her all the hints and flat-out "you should leave this guy, he's not right for you, and he doesn't make time for you or make you happy" that I can. If she's going to marry him, she's going to marry him.</p>
<p>Steven, what other girl? There's one I've been spending a loooot of time with lately, but things haven't moved beyond a very close friendship. I'd say "yet" but that'd imply that I think they might some day, and I don't know where things are going.</p>
<p>Howsat? <img src='http://nslog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Steven Canfield</title>
		<link>http://nslog.com/2003/04/12/ed_chooses_carol#comment-1962</link>
		<dc:creator>Steven Canfield</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2003 06:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wait...what about that other girl. I sort of got the impression that you were going out with her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wait...what about that other girl. I sort of got the impression that you were going out with her.</p>
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		<title>By: Justin Williams</title>
		<link>http://nslog.com/2003/04/12/ed_chooses_carol#comment-1961</link>
		<dc:creator>Justin Williams</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2003 05:28:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you gotta leave subtle hints with her.  thats how i got my friend to dump her asshole boyfriend.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you gotta leave subtle hints with her.  thats how i got my friend to dump her asshole boyfriend.</p>
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		<title>By: Etan</title>
		<link>http://nslog.com/2003/04/12/ed_chooses_carol#comment-1960</link>
		<dc:creator>Etan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2003 05:24:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I could never write such personal things in a blog. Do those people you wrote about not care about what you are writing about their personal lives?



Just wondering. Even if I could write such personal stuff, I always try to keep my blog away from touching on my friend&#039;s lives.



Re: Lisa. Talk to her again, and then give her space for a while. How long is it until the wedding day? Give her half that time, mention it again. Once it gets really close to her wedding, though, you may want to leave it alone. She obviously sees something in this guy if she is marrying him, right?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I could never write such personal things in a blog. Do those people you wrote about not care about what you are writing about their personal lives?</p>
<p>Just wondering. Even if I could write such personal stuff, I always try to keep my blog away from touching on my friend's lives.</p>
<p>Re: Lisa. Talk to her again, and then give her space for a while. How long is it until the wedding day? Give her half that time, mention it again. Once it gets really close to her wedding, though, you may want to leave it alone. She obviously sees something in this guy if she is marrying him, right?</p>
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