QotD: Cheating
Posted August 14th, 2003 @ 07:46pm by Erik J. Barzeski
Question: If your spouse cheated on you, what would you do?
My Answer: I'd like to say I'd leave her immediately, but frankly, I know I probably couldn't. If I'm married, then I'm committed, and if she's cheated, she's either scum (I'd leave her) and that act would open my eyes, or she and I have somehow gotten off-track and I'd have to work to correct that. Since I would hope I wouldn't be marrying scum, it's most likely the latter. However, I can say with a fair amount of certainty that if she cheated a second time, that'd be that, and I can also say I wouldn't blame her for dumping me if I cheated (never have, never will, so this isn't something about which I worry).
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Posted 15 Aug 2003 at 2:10am #
"I can forgive, but never forget." It'd be hard to leave, but for me I think I'd do my best to make a clean break of it. If she doesn't want to be with me, then she doesn't want to be with me. If my love isn't enough to stop a "minor indiscresion", then I probably shouldn't be with her, no matter how much I think I should be.
Posted 15 Aug 2003 at 6:34am #
Cheating
Eric asks in his question of the day: If your spouse cheated on you, what would you do? My answer: It depends. Yes I know, I'm always saying this. But it's true. If I really love her and she loves me (at least, when I think she does), I could forgive h...