QotD: Fetish
Posted February 26th, 2004 @ 09:34pm by Erik J. Barzeski
Question: Do you have any sexual fetishes?
My Answer: Not really. I don't have strong feelings towards anything except most of the bizarre, way out of this world stuff, and those feelings are more along the lines of "not for me" than anything else. I don't obsess over any one part of a woman, I'm not exceedingly fond of any particular material, style of dress, etc. I like brunettes, but that's no fetish last time I checked, merely a preference.
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Posted 26 Feb 2004 at 10:39pm #
OK, call me conservative, but this is just one of those things that you don't discuss in public. Seriously.
Posted 26 Feb 2004 at 10:59pm #
JL? Do you have any reasons to not discuss it in public? Or do you simply not discuss it because society views it as a 'bad' thing?
Posted 26 Feb 2004 at 11:01pm #
This whole country has an entirely too big a stick up its ass about things like this. And yes, I'm fully aware of the fact that "sticks up asses" is probably at least 10 people's fetish. 😛
Posted 26 Feb 2004 at 11:50pm #
Fat Chicks? Oh wait that was the previous thread... 🙂
Posted 26 Feb 2004 at 11:57pm #
Yes. And to quote Forest Gump, that's all I've got to say about that.
Posted 27 Feb 2004 at 2:09pm #
No, fetishes, just some preferences.
Posted 27 Feb 2004 at 2:12pm #
er No fetishes, just some preferences.
English is a second language to me, I just need to figure out what my first is.
Posted 27 Feb 2004 at 3:09pm #
Here are some quick definitions of fetish --
An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence.
Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.
I have strong preferences and perhaps at times I do become a bit fixated with many different aspects of sexuality and women, but there's just sooo much to be fixated with... how can I truly fixate?
Besides, sex isn't really about having someone fixate on a part of your body or personality, is it? No, not typically.
JL, talking about these things publicly can serve a noble purpose so don't knock it -- participate and share your (probably) conservative opinions too!
Posted 27 Feb 2004 at 3:54pm #
None that I know of, just preferences, and those are not hard-line black-and-white for that matter. If that's you thing, that's cool with me; your business is your business. I also think its a good thing to discuss these things in the open so that those pre-conceived notions can be broken down, much as in the case of gays and lesbians. The more visible [they] are, the more society will become used to it. That's my 2 cents, anyways.
Posted 27 Feb 2004 at 4:36pm #
Sorry, I didn't mean to make it sound like I was scolding anyone for discussing it. I mean, discuss all you like! I can't stop you, nor would I if I had the power. I'm just saying that I'm not personally comfortable posting stuff like that on my website, or even on Erik's website! It's just something that I share with one other person (my wife) and it seems that it was made to be that way. It's special and private. I don't know... I think it's more beautiful if she's the only one who knows me at that level.
Posted 27 Feb 2004 at 4:48pm #
I don't feel scolded. 😀
Posted 27 Feb 2004 at 5:59pm #
I don't feel scolded either.
The question is intended to provoke a reaction. I don't have much of a reaction myself because I have no real fetishes, but other people might, and then other people might get into a fight with them, and then we can all learn about each other a little bit. Just look at the obesity QOTD for cryin' out loud!
Yes, this question came up because I know that some guys have a fetish for big big women. I don't, they do. To each his own - but that doesn't mean that I have to be OK with it myself. I have my likes and dislikes. None of my likes involve anything that could be described as a fetish. 🙂
Posted 23 Mar 2004 at 8:46pm #
k ill tell u guys,..my fetish,,would be too fine ass boys,, in bed w/ me,,we dont even have 2 be doin a lot,..i mean, for all i care we could be watchin a movie,..(porn)hehhe jk..but yea,,then fall alseep side by side,..harmless..or take a bath with my boy, or cover him in whipcream chocolate and caramel..theres sooooo many possibilities!