QotD: Invited
Posted July 25th, 2005 @ 05:04pm by Erik J. Barzeski
Question: When you're invited to a wedding reception, housewarming, bridal shower, etc., what do you consider proper etiquette?
My Answer: I typically overspend, and I almost always send a gift. The only times I don't send a gift are when I barely know the person who's invited me. In those instances, I send a card. More in a different post…
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Posted 25 Jul 2005 at 5:37pm #
I like to think of myself as a reincarnated version of Emily Post. I try to follow her rules to a T. Although there are a lot of rules to keep in mind, I think people who don't brush up on the common stuff (weddings, funerals, dinner parties, business meetings, etc.) are really cutting themselves short.
I always base my gift giving on how well I know the people and how good our friendship is. But even if it was someone I didn't know well I still wouldn't be cheap with a gift. When all else fails I use the registry and pick up something that is practical. Also, I am always sure to send a thoughful card. This means I don't EVER just sign my name. I always include a very personal note, although if you aren't good at coming up with things on your own there are plenty of books out there to help like this and this.
If you need a quick guide to wedding etiquette go here!